Monday Brain Dump: Weddings Are Tiresome
I’m so pooped. I wonder if all of my weekends are going to feel like this until August 8. If you’re not rich and trying to DIY as much as you can to save money….weddings are so much work!!!!
A part of me wants to try and make this the coolest wedding ever.
The other part of me is way too lazy to do that. And is it really worth the effort? Noone is going to notice the little things I do that took me HOURS to finish. Honestly.
Right now we’re on wedding invitations. I have all of these neat ideas/thoughts but then when you think about it…nobody really cares about the invitation. It’s just a piece of paper. They might go ooh that’s nice for like 5 seconds but in the end, noone appreciates all of the hard work you might have put into it! Freaking nice invitations are so expensive too!
My dream invitations would be letterpressed. I think letterpress is SO pretty!!! But they are like 7 to 15 bucks A PIECE (if you add the invitation, reception, and rsvp card together and want a decent design)! I could buy a book for that price. A best seller! I think people would appreciate that more than a wedding invitation! Am I right?? But gosh those $10+ wedding invitations are so beautiful. At this point, we are thinking of just going with white invitations and having them thermographed (raised printing). Slap a bow on it and call it a day. (and pray that people even noticed we bothered with the nicer printing!)
Another headache for me is the centerpiece. Right now I am wondering if I can get away with a no flowers centerpiece by using our wedding favors and arranging them in the middle of the table with some flower petals or something. I HATE wedding centerpieces. It seems like such a waste to me. I am having a chinese banquet style reception so they literally take the centerpiece away when the reception starts and they serve the food! You want me to pay $50+/table for something people will see for 15 minutes???
This is my DREAM centerpiece. As a wedding guest, I would truly enjoy this. It won’t go so well with my chinese banquet though ha ha.
Bread + herbs + spreads…add me some olive oil and balsamic vinegar and I’m in heaven!
So in my head….I have this most amazing wedding planned. But in reality, my time and wallet is saying NO. All I can say is I can’t wait until August 9th.
Posted: 16 March, 2009 in Personal.
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